Mike has been gone at SERE, an Army training school, for the last 3 weeks (no communication allowed) and I've had a very rough time with a certain toddler. Elise has always had a hard time with change, and this has been no exception. He comes home TOMORROW and I thought it would be good for me to take a quick break from being frustrated and focus on the good things. In no particular order...
- My two precious children are both taking a nice long nap right now.
- My husband is absolutely wonderful and is the perfect fit for me. I have learned that I will never take him for granted. I cannot imagine life without him and I'm so thankful that we're looking at at least 6 years before he can deploy again.
- In less than a month, we'll be settled into our new home in Baltimore.
- Jack has been such an easy baby and is nursing and sleeping well. He is now going to bed around 7-7:30 and sleeping until 5:30, then eating and going back to sleep for a few more hours. He sleeps the same in the pack and play and crib, which should make our upcoming Texas trip go smoothly. His smiles melt my heart and his curls make me laugh.
- Elise is so creative and imaginative and is learning so quickly. She is easily entertained by her puzzles or duplos. She can go from screaming to happy in a matter of seconds (if she wants to). She loves to cuddle, which is great at the appropriate times.
- My mom has spent the majority of the last few weeks in Alabama, and she is tireless when it comes to helping with/playing with/consoling her grandchildren. We might not have survived without her. Thanks again, Mimi!
- Bryan and Michelle came to visit during a particularly rough time with Elise, and I think they will still have kids someday. The highlight was probably Elise screaming "I want to hold you, Mommy!" from 3 am to 4:15 am during one of the nights they were here. For the record, I did go check on her, rock her for a minute, and put her back in her crib before the marathon screaming session began. Thankfully, Michelle took some adorable pictures that captured her sweet side that you can look at
here.- My dear friend Laura and her son came to visit us and provided a much needed playmate for Elise and girl time for Mommy.
- I had a terrible idea that involved taking both kids to the zoo (1 hour and 45 minutes away) and I learned that it was a GREAT idea to fly with the kids to Baltimore rather than drive for 900 miles while dealing with nursing stops/food stops/potty stops/crankiness/hotel room with 2 kids and a dog/time in empty houses without cribs.
- I am excited about taking the kids to Austin to get out of the way of the packing/moving process (and then flying nonstop to Baltimore after our household goods are delivered). I'm looking forward to seeing a lot of friends and family. We'll be there July 26-August 8 and would love to hang out with anyone who wants to come see us!
- We have gone to a wonderful
church while living here and have been looking at several churches in the Baltimore area that we are excited to try.
- In Baltimore, we will be living less than a mile from The Cheesecake Factory, Starbucks, PF Changs, Panera, Chipotle, babyGap, Loft, Target, and many other fun stores and eating establishments. This is good and bad.
- God has reminded me that I have surrender DAILY to Him. Sometimes it is hard to remember this when things are going well. There is more to life than dealing with toddler temper tantrums, and this is just a season (hopefully a very short season).
- Mike is coming home TOMORROW and Elise is so excited to see him. I told her that we will pick him up after church and she asked if we could go get him before church instead. I'm praying that Elise will quickly return to her pre-SERE school self. We had some great weeks with her right before he left.